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Are Black Women Scared of a Good Man: Good Men Are Easy to Find



Life be lifeing out here, am I right? It seems like no matter how hard we try, we just can't seem to get it together when it comes to relationships. Take for example, this woman who admitted that a good man scares her because she knows she would sabotage the relationship. How typical, right?


I don't understand why some women are so afraid of a good man. Is it because he treats you with respect and kindness? Is it because he actually cares about your feelings and wants to make you happy? Oh, the horror! How dare he be a decent human being who wants to treat you right?


Instead of embracing a good man, some women choose to run in the opposite direction. They come up with all sorts of excuses to justify their fear. "He's too nice, he must be hiding something." "He's too perfect, there must be a catch." "I'm not ready for a serious relationship, even though he's everything I've ever wanted."


But what really gets me is her struggle to understand why she would do such a thing. Could it be that she's just not used to letting a man take the lead? Or maybe, just maybe, it's because she knows that being with a quality man means she would actually have to step up her game and improve herself to meet his standards. Heaven forbid!


It's like she only wants a man for his usefulness, as if that's all that matters. But let me tell you fellas, that's just not good enough. A relationship should be about mutual growth and support, not just using someone for what they can do for you.


Well, let me tell you something, ladies. It's not him, it's you. You are the one who is scared of being happy. You are the one who is afraid of letting someone into your heart. You are the one who is holding yourself back from experiencing true love and happiness.


Stop blaming the good man for your own insecurities and fears. Stop making excuses for why you can't be with him. Stop pushing him away because you're too scared to let someone truly love you.


So, to all the ladies out there who are scared of a good man, I say this: stop making excuses and start taking responsibility for your own actions. It's time to step up and be the best version of yourself, not just for him, but for you. Life is too short to settle for anything less than what you deserve.


It's time to take responsibility for your own actions. It's time to stop settling for less than you deserve. It's time to stop running away from a good man who only wants to make you happy.


Don't let fear and insecurity hold you back from experiencing true love and happiness. Embrace the good man who is standing in front of you, waiting to show you what real love looks like. Take a chance, open your heart, and let yourself be loved. You deserve it.


let's stop playing games and start being real with ourselves. A good man should not be something to fear, but something to embrace and appreciate. So let's all do better and strive for more in our relationships. Life be lifing, but that doesn't mean we have to let it control us. Let's take charge and make the most of every opportunity that comes our way.

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