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Single Black Women and the Top 4 Myths About Black Marriage🔥

Do Black people get married? That question has been asked in one form or another in a series of news reports about the Black marriage “crisis.” On the surface, such stories seem to be concerned about Black women in search of love, but these media reports have fueled stereotypes about Black people. By suggesting that too few Black men are available to wed, news stories on Black marriage have done little more than predict doom and gloom for Black women who hope to marry.

In reality, Black marriage isn’t reserved for the likes of Barack and Michelle Obama. Analysis of census data and other figures has debunked much of the misinformation the media has reported about the Black marriage rate.

Black Women Don’t Marry

The barrage of news reports about the Black marriage rate gives the impression that Black women’s chances of walking down the aisle are bleak. A Yale University study found that just 42% of Black women are married, and a variety of high profile news networks such as CNN and ABC picked up that figure and ran with it. But researchers Ivory A. Toldson of Howard University and Bryant Marks of Morehouse College question the accuracy of this finding.

“The often-cited figure of 42% of Black women never marrying includes all Black women 18 and older,” Toldson told the “Raising this age in an analysis eliminates age groups we don't really expect to be married and gives a more accurate estimate of true marriage rates.”

Toldson and Marks found that 75% of Black women marry before they turn age 35 after examining census data from 2005 to 2009. Plus, Black women in small towns have higher marriage rates than white women in urban centers such as New York and Los Angeles, Toldson remarked in The New York Times.

Educated Black Women Have It Harder

Getting a college degree is the worst thing a Black woman can do if she wants to get married, right? Not exactly. News stories about Black marriage often mention that more Black women pursue higher education than Black men—by a 2-to-1 ratio, according to some estimates. What these articles leave out is that white women also earn college degrees more than white men do, and this gender imbalance hasn’t hurt white women’s chances at matrimony. What’s more, Black women who finish college actually improve their chances of marrying rather than lower them.

“Among Black women, 70% of college graduates are married by 40, whereas only about 60% of Black high school graduates are married by that age,” Tara Parker-Pope of The New York Times reported.

The same trend is at play for Black men. In 2008, 76% of Black men with a college degree married by age 40. In contrast, only 63% of Black men with just a high school diploma tied the knot. So education increases the likelihood of marriage for both Black men and women. Also, Toldson points out that Black women with college degrees are more likely to marry than White female high school dropouts.

Rich Black Men Marry Out

Black men drop Black women as soon as they reach a certain level of success, don’t they? While plenty of rap stars, athletes and musicians may choose to date or marry interracially when they achieve fame, the same is not true for the bulk of successful Black men. By analyzing census data, Toldson and Marks found that 83% of married Black men who earned at least $100,000 annually got hitched to Black women.

The same is the case for educated Black men of all incomes. Eighty-five percent of Black male college graduates married Black women. Generally, 88% of married Black men (no matter their income or educational background) have Black wives. This means that interracial marriage should not alone be held responsible for the singleness of Black women.

Black Men Don’t Earn as Much as Black Women

Just because Black women are more likely to graduate from college than their male counterparts doesn’t mean that they out-earn Black men. Actually, Black men are more likely than Black women to bring home at least $75,000 annually. Also, double the number of Black men than women make at least $250,000 annually. Because of pervasive gender gaps in income, Black men remain the breadwinners in the Black community.

These numbers indicate that there are plenty of financially secure Black men for Black women. Of course, not every Black woman is looking for a breadwinner. Not every Black woman is even seeking marriage. Some Black women are happily single. Others are gay, lesbian, or bisexual and were unable to legally wed those they love until 2015 when the Supreme Court overturned the ban on gay marriage. For heterosexual Black women in search of marriage, however, the forecast is not nearly as gloomy as has been reported.


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