You Are Either their Loyal Follower or their Sworn Enemy 😤

Ah, the joys of dealing with a narcissist. To them, you are either good or bad, with no room for shades of grey. You are either their loyal follower or their sworn enemy. You either do exactly as they say or face their wrath. There is no in-between, no room for ambiguity in their black and white world.

You may bend over backwards trying to please the narcissist, doing everything in your power to be in their good graces. But no matter what you do, you always seem to be painted black in their eyes. Every word you say is wrong, every action you take is stupid. It doesn't matter how hard you try, you will always be the villain in their twisted narrative.

And just when you think you've finally earned their approval, they suddenly start treating you well. You start to wonder what you did right, only to realize that it has nothing to do with you. It's all about someone else in their fuel matrix who has now taken your place as the designated black sheep. You are only white by comparison, a temporary reprieve until the next victim takes your spot.

So, you try to replicate whatever it was that made them see you in a positive light, only to fail miserably. You are left scratching your head, wondering why your efforts fell flat this time. But the truth is, it was never about you to begin with. You are just a pawn in their twisted game, a disposable piece to be used and discarded at their whim.

In the end, dealing with a narcissist is like walking on eggshells, never knowing when you will be painted black again. But remember, it's not about you. It's about their need for control and manipulation, their insatiable hunger for power and adoration. So, don't take it personally. Just keep your distance and protect yourself from their toxic influence. After all, it's not you, it's them.